10 Things You Need To Know When You're 30-Something

Jul 22, 2017
3 min read

So you are now 30-something, so what?

For Indonesian women, hell, for most of women around the world, entering 30-something year old is basically “SOMETHING”. We feel it, we kind of think about it, but we never really aware what is exactly that we are facing. We are trying to sum up your questions, your opinions, with our own and come up with 10 things that will happen when you are 30-something woman.

1. You are better than you were on your twenties

Why?? You grew up, mentally, of course. Some things that mattered to you, probably don’t matter anymore. And if in this case is your exes, embrace it and be happy about it! Because some people just dont know how to move on!

2. Less friend, more peace.

When you reach 30, you finally arrive to the stage where you just want to be surrounded with people who care about you and you care about. That chick who seems to have everything in her life? She can live her life, you will find everything you want in your world with your own way!

3. Your terms of happiness is getting simpler.

You don’t really need to hang out a lot anymore. Finding out that tomorrow you don’t have to to work is good enough. Even better. For some days, it’s the best thing that can happen to you. I know you agree with me on this.

4. You will start questioning about your career, life goals, achievement.

It’s fine. Especially if you had too much drinks during your twenties. It’s never to late to push the reset button. After all that you had been through, you are the better version of who you were years ago.

5. “ YOU’RE OVER THIRTY. WHY ARE YOU STILL SINGLE?”

People, yes, people, they will haunt you with this question until you dig your own grave and hide your self forever. Don’t dig the grave for you. Dig it and throw them there (just kidding, if you’re serious, it’s not my fault). And live your life fabulously. I know maybe one of them is your aunt. I feel you, seriously.

6. Find what you love and let yourself drown in it.

I mean, before we reach 30, we are like bubbles floating on a sea full of choices and we unconsciously tend to follow or choose what the community told us, which maybe it’s not what we want. Let me tell you this, YOU ARE FREE TO CHOOSE WHATEVER YOU LOVE TO DO. Once you found what you love, strive yourself into that direction and go for it.

7. 30 is the new 20!

Who said you cannot wear mini skirt or tight shirt anymore? Wear them confidently and elegantly. We are not those teenagers who are sooo skinny with a tight shirt and tight daisy. Wear your mini skirt, your daisy, with a sweater. Or tight skirt with one of those comfortable palazzo pants. That’s what we call elegant!

8. Your foundation needs to have more coverage.

Oh yes, you want to hide those wrinkles, sun spots, and discoloration. You may Google “High Definition” foundation. Some brands added “Ultra” before the “High Definition”. They probably can even cover your lies.

9. Extra treatment, please!

Don’t worry, we are also aware that our body is working based on how many years we have live in this world. So yes, you do need extra body treatment to keep your skin moist and of course, less wrinkles. We will share with you about some natural treatments that you can do at home, so easy and simple! You will love it! Your skin will love it too!

10. Family is your most important treasure.

Family is the only community that will accept you for whoever you were before, whoever you are now, and whoever you will become in the future. Of course, sometimes in a while I would like to have my mom eats all day, so she will not talk (okay, that is mean!). But please please keep them close to your heart.

So, do you think those are the things that are going on in your 30-something live? Or you have more things? Please share with us with your comments. We would like to hear it from you!